With all the fear and stress — two classic mood-thwarters — wrought by the last two years, of course you aren’t feeling as horny as usual. Besides, sexual desire is a complicated animal. Sure, you can whip out your favorite vibrator and get all worked up, but to be actually turned on, you need to have a whole lot of pieces placed correctly in a maddeningly complex puzzle. “We’re not talking about a two-dimensional, 1,000-piece jigsaw puzzle with a picture of the Arc de Triomphe on it, either,” writes Bustle’s sex columnist Sophia Benoit. “We’re talking about creating a wedding seating chart with two sets of divorced and remarried parents that doesn’t result in someone crying at the reception.” Read More | 
