It’s a question people love to ask engaged and married folks, “So, when did you know?” People usually respond with a cute story about how their partner stuck around and wasn’t grossed out by an objectively horrific stomach bug or that they just felt it instantly. The truth is, however, that’s all a load of bull. “You’re never going to get a Hogwartsian letter in the mail that tells you who The One is,” writes Bustle’s sex columnist Sophia Benoit. “You’ll never know with absolute certainty that you made the right choice.” People change; circumstances change. There’s never a guarantee that a relationship will suit you forever. So how can you evaluate whether someone is the right someone for you? Read More | 
