My Boyfriend Gained Weight & Now I'm Less Attracted To Him!

Shalita Grant’s Real Life Is Somehow Even More Captivating Than You

After scene-stealing turns in the most recent seasons of both Search Party and You, people are finally paying attention to Shalita Grant. “If this person that I am now is getting the most attention, that’s great. Because I was a sh*thead a lot,” Grant says. But getting to this point was no walk in the park. Here, the 4-foot-11 actor tells Bustle about her “hellish” childhood, her bout with evangelical Christianity, discovering her sexuality, and not taking things personally. Read More

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Fill Up Your Sephora Cart

Almost everything from the beauty retailer is fair game during its holiday sale, which kicks off (for Rouge members) today. Grab a gift for the makeup lover in your life or splurge on a big-ticket item for yourself. Read More

MUSIC

Swiftie Christmas Came Early

Fans have been anxiously awaiting the release of Red (Taylor’s Version) since June, and now they have one more reason to look forward to next Friday, November 12. In her latest tease, Swift announced there will be an accompanying short film for the 10-minute version of “All Too Well,” which will star actors from both Stranger Things and Teen Wolf. Read More

“The message from my ancestors was, ‘You are a honey-dipped machete. Fight sweet and don’t allow the battles to harden you.’”

—Shalita Grant, actor

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My Boyfriend Gained Weight & Now I Think I'm Not Attracted To Him!

Not unlike weight, attraction is something that waxes and wanes over time. “It’s normal to be less attracted to someone when they aren’t caring for themselves, when they aren’t taking initiative, when they have less of an external life going on than they did before,” writes Bustle sex columnist Sophia Benoit. But that doesn’t mean the attraction can’t recover, and in the meantime, “Love can carry you for a bit.” Read More

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Foundation Isn't A Dystopia — It's A Lee Pace-Filled Paradise

Apple TV’s new sci-fi series is, on its face, about a loathsome dystopia in which one man rules over the whole world, cloning himself over and over again for centuries. Seems bad, sure! “But what if a god among men, a 6-foot-5 king with azure eyes and chin-length locks, sat on the throne?” asks Bustle editor Chloe Foussianes. In other words, what if that man was Lee Pace? Read More

CELEBRITIES

At 28, Salma Hayek Had A “Naughty And Illegal” Habit

In 1994, Hayek had wrapped her first major film, Desperado, but she didn’t have anything lined up afterwards, and the closer she got to 30, the more depressed she became. “We enter our 20s with a lot of stamina,” Hayek tells Bustle. “‘I will find love, my career will be established, I will be getting ready to have babies by the age of 30.’ You get to your late 20s, and your stamina begins to deflate, because it’s just not realistic.” Though she remembers it as a rough time, there was one sneaky Friday ritual that brought her joy. Read More

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